CAN WE SURVIVE A BREAK UP

You have been together for 3 years or 10 years? 15? Now, time to call it off. How are you gonna do it?
It is not easy. Bila kita dah bersama dengan seseorang untuk satu tempoh yang lama, like more then 10 years, bila terpaksa berpisah, pasti sangat susah nak move on. Even ada yang tak boleh terima hakikat hubungan yang sudah terbina bertahun-tahun terpaksa ditamatkan. Kalau hati tak terima dan tak percaya yang dia dah tinggalkan kita, macamana nak move on? Macamana nak teruskan hidup sendirian tanpa dia?
Dah bertahun-tahun berdua, suddenly you are alone. Semua benda kena buat sendiri. Dia tak ada dah. Every momment your mind will be on him, thinking of him and play with the 'what if' question on and on. Pergi sini teringat dia, buat itu teringat dia, dengar lagu ini teringat dia. When that kind of things keep happening in your life, how can you forget him? When in your head full with memories of you and him, how can you forget about him and move on? Erase all the memories of him? Kalaulah boleh.

Ramai diantara kita yang mengalami perpisahan begini. Most of them manage to move on, finally. It is not easy, but you can do it. There is always a way. Dont worry. But it takes time. Berapa lama? Bergantung pada individu dan banyak perkara lain. Kekuatan kita, support from friends and family and maybe how he left.
Easy said then done. I know. If you need time to cry, then take your time. No rush. Cry your heart out. When you are done, learn how to smile again. Even if you have to fake it at first. Its ok, its the beginning. Along the way, change that fake smile to a real one. Everyone else know you can do it even if you dont.
Kamu yang baru putus cinta dan rasa macam nak mati frust tak tahu macamana nak survive this, dont worry. One sweet day pasti kamu akan mampu tersenyum sahaja bila teringat kan dia. No more tears and sad night alone. No more fake smile. How to reach there? I cant tell you how. The only thing I can tell you is, there is always a way that only you can finally see it. Go find it. As long as you yourself want to find the way, then you will find it. You will.